Frequently Asked Questions

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Pre-payment registrationPre-payment: The pre-pay feature is non-refundable. Menstrual cycles, babysitters, deaths and all kinds of things can keep you from attending. If you cannot make a party, your RSVP is transferred to the next party. For example, if you register for the April party but do not show up, you will automatically be placed into the May party. However, this is one month only. You would be deleted and need to register again if you miss the second party as well. In summary, any no-shows can use their ticket for the following party, but ONLY the following party.

Your sold out, can you put me on “the list?” Because our tickets are non-refundable, there is no list.  All of our events sell out in advance, the best thing you can do to (1) save money and (2) get into every party is text ycp to 797979 to join the texting list.

Do you ever cancel? We would only cancel because of severe winter weather, or some other natural disaster like the club was burned down by fire.

Why under 42? We know that many young couples avoid clubs due to the perception that there will be a significant age gap between the average attendee and themselves. We have a number of couples in this group that are in their early 20’s. Remember how old you felt someone 45 was when you were 21!

Quite honestly, if you’re 50 years old, you’re going to feel like a fish out of water at our parties. Some of our attendees still live at home with their parents.

I’m a super awesome single male, can I attend? No.

I’m a super awesome single female, can I attend? Yes. The single female price is 1/2 of the couple price. Just use coupon code SINGLEFEMALE when you register, to make it half-off, and then register just as a couple would.

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What time is the party? You can show up as early as 7:30, the party begins at 8 pm and the doors are locked at 10:30. You will not be allowed into the building after 10:30 pm. 

Will I need to bring my identification? Yes, if you’re new, you’ll need to bring something that shows you’re at least 21 years old. No one will copy your ID or anything like that. Just look at it, and give it back to you.

The parties are BYOB. What exactly does that mean? It means that mixers (soda, etc.), ice and cups are provided but you are responsible for your alcohol. There are refrigerators for anything you’d like to keep cold.

What should we wear? It’s almost always ladies who ask this question when they honestly have the least to worry about. Let’s address the guys first.

Guys: Dress to impress. Do not wear tennis shoes or a t-shirt unless you are participating in the party theme. For example, if the theme is “Christmas: Naughty or Nice” and you want to wear an ugly Christmas sweater….great! If the theme is “spring break” and you want to wear a tank top because it fits the beach theme…..great! However, if you’re not in theme, err on the side of dressing up.

This doesn’t mean you need to wear designer clothes. Just go with “business casual” or better and you’ll be fine. A shirt with a collar, dress shoes, etc. You will never look foolish by “over dressing,” the guy in suit will look great whereas the guy in the oversized t-shirt will be asked to leave.

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An example of a club dress.

Ladies: Wear whatever makes you feel the sexiest. At your typical club there will be women baring a lot, like exposed breasts and barely-there panties. There will also be women almost completely covered. It’s entirely up to you.

A common “swing club” dress is a simple club dress.

Bottom line: you will fit in no matter what but a swing club is the perfect time to wear WHATEVER makes you feel the hottest, without having to fear being judged. If that’s a dress that exposes your breasts and 8″ heels…great! You’ll fit right in! if you’re completely covered but those designer jeans make your ass look fantastic…..great!

Do I need cash? No.

What do we need to bring with us? Everything is up to you….alcohol, condoms, etc. If you’re new you will need to bring in your personal identification (driver’s license, etc.)

When are your events? Look at the “Next Events and Future Events” section of menu.

What is speed dating?  See the video description of speed dating here.

Can we spend the night? Yes! We hate drinking and driving, we want everyone to make it home safely. When you arrive the receptionist will ask you if you’d like to spent the night. If you answer yes, she will help you choose your room. These rooms are available on a first-come-first-served basis. If you want a private room, I advise you to arrive at 7:30 so you can choose from all of them.

The rooms are the sex/play rooms.  However, they are relatively clean, safe and quiet after 2 am and clean sheets are available. You can make yourself more comfortable by bringing additional pillows and blankets.

We understand that sometimes people drink more than they planned to. You can always stay at the club, even if you earlier stated that you weren’t. We may run out of rooms towards the end of the evening, but we will find you a place to sleep. Please, please, please do not drink home while intoxicated.

What are your parties like? There three main differences between a YCP event and other parties are the ages, speed dating and start times.

All attendees are between 21 and 42 years old. Each event sells out with approximately 90 couples ticketed prior to each event. Usually about 30 new couples attend each month.

We have “swinger speed dating” which is just exactly what it sounds like. You spend three minutes talking with a couple, then switch. It’s an amazing way to get to know everyone in a  pressure free way.

Other parties have attendees filtering in over the course of the evening, like a typical nightclub. If you actually arrive “on time” you might feel silly because there will only be a few people there. At YCP parties, the party begins at 8 and by 8:30 the club is completely full.

What exactly happens when we arrive? After arriving the first person you see will be the receptionist running the front desk. She checks the RSVP list to make sure that you have registered and paid and then asks you if you are new and if you are staying the night. If you’re new, she checks your ID to make sure that you’re at least 21 years old. Then she makes sure that you get a tour and if you are staying the night she helps you select a room. Then you will have an opportunity to store your belongings in a locker and then be given a personal tour of the facility.

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Where is the club located? You’ll receive directions after you’ve registered, but for right now just know that it’s in the Yorkville/Oswego Illinois area.

What is the club like? The club is an established swinger club that has been in operation for 22 years. It’s basically a large house/mansion that has operates only as a club (no one lives there). We rent the facility to hold our events.

The club is professionally cleaned after each event. It has two swimming pools, two hot tubs, a dance floor with a stripper pole, 16 beds in ten bedrooms for people to “play” if they choose to.

Take a video tour of the facility here.

Is the club in a safe neighborhood? Yes.

Will everyone be smoking? Smoking is not allowed inside the club. If you do smoke, please attend, and you will find a smoking area outside.

Can I use my vape pen? In the smoking area only. Not inside.

Will people be using illegal drugs? No, illegal drugs are not allowed on premises, including marijuana.

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What about STDS? The party is definitely not an orgy. It is like any other bar or nightclub, only the people are way nicer and if you meet someone or a couple that you click with, there are places that you can have sex.

As with any other sexual situation, feel free to talk with potential partners about safe sex, stds and ask if they are tested. No one is going to think you’re weird for asking, in fact, they will appreciate your responsibility.

If you’d like to get tested, we recommend using this company and using this link.

What are the rules of swinging? The most important rules are to always ask before touching and get an enthusiastic “yes.”  There are some additional club rules like “no drinks upstairs” that will be explained on your tour.

We don’t think we’re ready for this. We’re new! We’ve been in the lifestyle for ten years. If you are meeting people via websites you will likely have far more drama than you ever would at a club. We have tried this multiple times. You chat with couples online, then agree to meet in person where you may find they no longer look like their online photos or you don’t have chemistry with them but are now stuck in an awkward dinner arrangement. Or you may find that you have great chemistry and meet up several times, however at some point, a “break-up” will happen…meaning that one couple will want to keep meeting but the other just won’t be “feeling it” anymore.

When you attend a club, you have the opportunity to chat with several couples without the awkwardness. Attendees range from those who just enjoy the atmosphere, to those who like to play with their significant other in a thrilling environment, to full-swap swingers, and everything in between. If you and your significant other can be comfortable being in the presence of naked people without jealously then you will be fine.

I don’t have the “perfect body,” will I fit in? This is a question that we hear a lot. You will find that there is every type of body at our events. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Believe us, by 10 pm you will be so comfortable you’ll feel like you’ve been attending clubs for  years.

We’re new, what if I can’t “perform?” This is so common. Many young, healthy males who have never had an issue suddenly discover they aren’t invincible in a club. Even if you aren’t feeling nervous, your penis might be. If it happens, shrug it off as best you can, it will be better next time, most likely. Again, trust us….it is common for new swingers. Many men in the lifestyle use an ED drug (Viagra, etc.), for this very reason.

 

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