In hindsight, it was a mistake not to make YCP membership-based. My main concern was keeping YCP affordable, but in...

If you've ever used the word "cockblock" to describe your failed night at the club, you aren't aggressive enough. "We...

I'm writing this blog post for other swinger lifestyle group owners. Our Secret Facebook Group is quite active. It averages...

Every DJ we've ever hired has "sucked." Ok, that's not actually what I believe. I've been satisfied with every DJ...

Over the age of 42? We are in our late thirties and feel more comfortable at an all-ages event than...

Covid has changed everyone's lives. Although the hospital overruns we feared never materialized, COVID has killed 3300 Illinois citizens. It's...

Covid update I watch the Governor's daily press briefing and various news sources from around the nation, wondering if and...

I recently read an ordinance designed to shut down a swinger's club. The preamble of the law stated why swinger...

I am not a blueblood. I grew up in a trailer house in an area so rural that there were...

Of the swinger/lifestyle events I know, only two let you know how many tickets were available, how many have sold,...

We will be holding four Sexy, Sunny, Saturday (SSS) events this summer. Watch this Youtube video if you are not...

The consent video is complete. Every attendee will watch it on Friday. At subsequent parties, new couples will view it...

Some topics are never mastered because they seem too simple to warrant thought or practice. Explicit consent, in my opinion,...

We've been partnering with Bluechew for one year, and 140 Young Couples Party men have subscribed! That's been incredibly valuable...

The food is intentionally shitty at YCP events. The food at YCP is terrible, but it's intentionally so. There are...

New and Regular YCP Couples! I'm going to tell you about Bluechew. When I started in the lifestyle, the only...

"Say what you'll do and do what you say." That's our policy structure in a nutshell. We do our very...

Someone is trying to start a "hot person" party. They wrote on Reddit: "So I found a club in chicago...

Swinging is a different ballgame entirely... I'm sitting on the couch, and her pussy is just above my cock. She's...

Here is why I believe you should vote for us. Vote here (you can choose in only one category): Young...

One of the oddest things about the lifestyle is the way people choose to leave it. They attend events regularly...

As I write this, I'm almost over my second cold of the winter, and it's only November. We have a...

Here is the sales data from our eight most recent events. There were 80 tickets (one per couple) available for...

A while back, I blogged about reducing the amount of alcohol I drink at parties. You can read why here...

I thought some of you might enjoy reading about some of the "behind the scenes" action of YCP. I've said...

This post has nothing to do with hosting YCP. This is about our experience in the lifestyle, in general. We...

The Military party is historically our least attended event. It's not an exceptional theme from a ticket sales point-of-view. It's...

I subscribed to Netflix in the summer of 2016 to show a documentary during a presentation. I've never canceled it....

We all have different opinions on politics and the decisions that politicians make, like going to war. I do not...

YCP has over 80,000 twitter followers. It's the platform I choose to interact with promotors, podcasters, and other influencers in...

Nudity The ban on nudity includes "implied nudity." If your photo is framed low enough that your bellybutton is showing,...

When it comes to turning down another couple, everyone will say that it's best to be direct and honest. If...

The men at our party are young. So when the pressure of a party suddenly rips away their invincibility, it...

I must make two disclaimers before we dive into this discussion. #1. I'm not a doctor. I have access to...

We asked men in the facebook group how many compliments their female partner receives at parties versus how many they...

Have you ever given a poor effort and then still found yourself depressed about the inevitably negative result? For example,...

Everything has been going well in the Facebook group. The activity level is at record highs despite a total ban...

We are considering shutting off the registration form at noon on the day of the event. Here are two examples...

I'm a confident man, yet I drink alcohol at parties to boost my positive self-image. I'm an energetic man, yet...

A couple from Singapore who hosts a popular swinger podcast is hosting their first event in the United States. I...

I believe Facebook's Community Standards are absurd. That said, posting nude photographs on the Young Couples Party secret Facebook group...

Seventy-nine couples attended the last Young Couples Party (YCP) event. By 9:15, only one hour after the party officially began,...



Occasionally a couple will say or write, "We would attend YCP, but you're an hour and a half drive away...

Who wants to be in the next Young Couples Party video? We are shooting a video for every party. We...

First, the risk of contracting an STD in the lifestyle is much lower than many people believe. Research shows that...

I received a call from a man inquiring about the party. He was asking questions like "where is the party?"...

The first Sexy, Sunny, Saturday is almost here! It's sold out, so if you didn't buy a ticket you'll have...

10:00 doors open 11:45 pizza arrives 1:00 *guess your partner by his cock/her breast competition 2:00 **yoga 3:00 ***blowjob competition...

Our Friday night parties have historically been on the second Friday of each month. We are moving to TWO friday...

A dirty drive in….. I have an idea for a drive-in movie theatre party. YCP owns a 25-foot wide movie...

Usually in life, the thing that feels the most “comfortable” in the short-term is damaging in the long-term. For example,...

Most couples that attend an event have the time of their lives and cannot wait to return. That said, some...

"Money makes the world go round," is a line from the 1966 Musical Cabaret. It's true. Without money, we cannot...

"I hear you have a pencil-dick!" When I was 19 years old, I heard that dozens of times in my...

We should be sitting down and having lengthy conversations about safe sex, our wishes, desires, and concerns before anyone goes...

Disclaimer: I am fully aware that what I'm about to share with you is absurd and unfair. We cannot always...

Someone on Facebook (a non-ycp group) just told me "I've never heard of a club having an age restriction, age...

No man wants to be insecure...let alone admit that he's vulnerable. We will do almost anything to avoid feeling anxious,...

Before we entered the lifestyle, I thought I understood attraction. In college when my buddies and I would talk about...

I can tell in the first ten minutes after a party goes on sale how well it's going to do....

It's remarkable how often someone tells me that their entire life has improved since they entered the swinger lifestyle. These...

I follow a lot of swinger/lifestyle podcasters, bloggers, and event hosts on social media. Some of them have a solid...

I read this article today about the University of Missouri's football attendance. Which is only about 47% of what they...

Someone recently asked me if I receive questions about the racial breakdown of YCP attendees. The person was wondering if...

YCP members have an amazing facebook group. It's a secret group which means anything that they post, like or comment...

We have 80,000 followers on Twitter. I'd guess around 78,000 of them are fake or single men from other nations...

Good sex is mostly about match ups, chemistry and modifying what you're doing based upon feedback. There is definitely no "best"...

I receive a message like this nearly every week. (paraphrasing several different, but similar statements) "Hey man, sorry we haven't...

The companies below are affiliates of ours. Meaning, if you purchase from them and go through this link, we receive...

The most popular swinger dating site in the area is Swinglifestyle (SLS).   We could post our event on SLS...

Cliques Typically, people tell me "we love YCP events because they aren't as 'cliquey' as other events we've been to."...

There is a well-known saying among people who discuss and study seduction, "always be escalating." The idea is that you're...

Yes means maybe, and no means no. People have asked me what my expectations are for the parties, and I...

Has this happened to you? I'm sitting on the couch, and her pussy is just above my cock. She's straddling...

We're raising prices on all YCP tickets. There are several reasons for this, but the "final straw" was our new...

Over the years, I've left untold numbers of items at parties across the country. I once took off my hat...

I blog for a few reasons. One is to simply add content to the website. My opinion doesn't matter any...

Themes matter a lot for attendance. Good themes sell out. Bad themes do not. Ok, then it should be easy....

If you have a specific style that you feel great about, then this blog post isn't for you. For example,...

I’ve been bodybuilding my entire adult life. Yet, I’m never going to look like a professional fitness model or bodybuilder....

Let's pretend you're at a lifestyle event, and chatting with an attractive couple. One of them says, "we entered the...

I've heard a lot of couples say, "This is only about us." They mean, "This is about our relationship. Spicing...

  Usually when a question is posed like this, people take the opportunity to "put over" their significant other. No...

Here at YCP, it feels like we do pretty well at promoting our events. We have an amazing facebook group....

We do not allow single men at YCP, so this advice isn't about YCP events. Instead it's about the other...

So I have a tendency to overdo everything. Glow parties are no exception. I've heard people describe their facility as...

On Friday, December 7th we had our first YCP event outside of Chicagoland. We hosted an event in Des Moines,...

The Christmas party on December 14th is selling great! As of this moment there are 73 couples ticketed to this...

The good news. The party in Des Moines on Friday will have close to 40 couples. Virtually none of them...

Hey, don't judge me. HAHA!We both travel for business a lot! So much time apart! I've often had a problem...

A great discussion was raised by our friends over at The Red Couch. They wrote a piece called, "5 Bullshit...

...There are so many things in life you never forget your “first” of, and this was definitely one of those...

Of all the newsletter emails we've ever sent, the ones with anything to do with "STDs" in the subject line...

This was so much fun to make. Take a look!  

We started on Twitter a long time ago and have been pretty successful! 83,000 followers. I'm really not sure why...