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Apr 19

April 17, 2019

A record four days for sure! Thank you all so much!

By YCP /

I can tell in the first ten minutes after a party goes on sale how well it's going to do....

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Apr 19

April 5, 2019

What has the lifestyle done for you?

By YCP /

It's remarkable how often someone tells me that their entire life has improved since they entered the swinger lifestyle. These...

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Apr 19

April 3, 2019

Is the word “swinger” outdated?

By YCP /

I follow a lot of swinger/lifestyle podcasters, bloggers and event hosts on social media. Some of them have a very...

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Mar 19

March 22, 2019

Listen to Lauren and Jason’s First time

By YCP /

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Mar 19

March 20, 2019

Today’s attendance is (enter bullshit here)

By YCP /

I read this article today about the University of Missouri's football attendance. Which is only about 47% of what they...

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Mar 19

March 19, 2019

Race and YCP

By YCP /

Someone recently asked me if I receive questions about the racial breakdown of YCP attendees. The person was wondering if...

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Mar 19

March 18, 2019

Facebook group daily themes and reminders

By YCP /

YCP members have an amazing facebook group. It's a secret group which means anything that they post, like or comment...

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Mar 19

March 12, 2019

Today I raised a ruckus on Twitter

By YCP /

We have 80,000 followers on Twitter. I'd guess around 78,000 of them are fake or single men from other nations...

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Mar 19

March 8, 2019

Ladies….what gets you off in the lifestyle?

By YCP /

Good sex is mostly about match ups, chemistry and modifying what you're doing based upon feedback. There is definitely no "best"...

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Mar 19

March 5, 2019

Drama in the lifestyle…

By YCP /

I receive a message like this nearly every week. (paraphrasing several different, but similar statements) "Hey man, sorry we haven't...

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Mar 19

March 4, 2019

YCP Affiliates

By YCP /

The companies below are affiliates of ours. Meaning, if you purchase from them and go through this link, we receive...

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Feb 19

February 20, 2019

Why we don’t allow RSVPs on Swinger Dating Sites

By YCP /

The most popular swinger dating site in the area is Swinglifestyle (SLS).   We could post our event on SLS...

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Feb 19

February 14, 2019

Are YCP events cliquey?

By YCP /

Cliques Typically, people tell me "we love YCP events because they aren't as 'cliquey' as other events we've been to."...

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Feb 19

February 11, 2019

Explicit consent and ABE (always be escalating)

By YCP /

There is a well-known saying among people who discuss and study seduction, "always be escalating." The idea is that you're...

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Feb 19

February 7, 2019

Guest Post by DP…on Expectations in the Lifestyle

By YCP /

Yes means maybe, and no means no. People have asked me what my expectations are for the parties, and I...

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Feb 19

February 4, 2019

Erections…. Is today the day it won’t work?

By YCP /

YCP has had 27 men subscribe to Bluechew through our affiliate link. We are shamelessly promoting them. Why? Because it...

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Jan 19

January 28, 2019

Raising prices

By YCP /

We're raising prices on all YCP tickets. There are several reasons for this, but the "final straw" was our new...

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Jan 19

January 21, 2019

So you left something at the club…..

By YCP /

Over the years, I've left untold numbers of items at parties across the country. I once took off my hat...

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Jan 19

January 17, 2019

Are single men in the “lifestyle?”

By YCP /

I blog for a few reasons. One is to simply add content to the website. My opinion doesn't matter any...

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Jan 19

January 16, 2019

Themes are hard…

By YCP /

Themes matter a lot for attendance. Good themes sell out. Bad themes do not. Ok, then it should be easy....

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Jan 19

January 9, 2019

Men’s style

By YCP /

If you have a specific style that you feel great about, then this blog post isn't for you. For example,...

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Jan 19

January 6, 2019

What exactly happens at a “Men’s health clinic”

By YCP /

I’ve been bodybuilding my entire adult life. Yet, I’m never going to look like a professional fitness model or bodybuilder....

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Jan 19

January 2, 2019

Entering the lifestyle after cheating

By YCP /

Let's pretend you're at a lifestyle event, and chatting with an attractive couple. One of them says, "we entered the...

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Dec 18

December 31, 2018

Is the lifestyle “just about you two?”

By YCP /

I've heard a lot of couples say, "This is only about us." They mean, "This is about our relationship. Spicing...

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Dec 18

December 21, 2018

Ladies…should men talk more during sex?

By YCP /

  Usually when a question is posed like this, people take the opportunity to "put over" their significant other. No...

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Dec 18

December 19, 2018

Do flyers make a difference?

By YCP /

Here at YCP, it feels like we do pretty well at promoting our events. We have an amazing facebook group....

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Dec 18

December 18, 2018

Advice for Single Men at a Swinger Club

By YCP /

We do not allow single men at YCP, so this advice isn't about YCP events. Instead it's about the other...

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Dec 18

December 17, 2018

What is a REAL glow party??

By YCP /

So I have a tendency to overdo everything. Glow parties are no exception. I've heard people describe their facility as...

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Dec 18

December 9, 2018

Taking YCP on the road!

By YCP /

On Friday, December 7th we had our first YCP event outside of Chicagoland. We hosted an event in Des Moines,...

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Dec 18

December 6, 2018

Ever noticed something weird about our numbers?

By YCP /

The Christmas party on December 14th is selling great! As of this moment there are 73 couples ticketed to this...

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Dec 18

December 3, 2018

AARP Party

By YCP /

The good news. The party in Des Moines on Friday will have close to 40 couples. Virtually none of them...

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Nov 18

November 30, 2018

So I bought a fleshlight….

By YCP /

Hey, don't judge me. HAHA!We both travel for business a lot! So much time apart! I've often had a problem...

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Nov 18

November 29, 2018

What is your lifestyle desire like?

By YCP /

A great discussion was raised by our friends over at The Red Couch. They wrote a piece called, "5 Bullshit...

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Nov 18

November 28, 2018

Read about Jason and Lauren’s first time.

By YCP /

...There are so many things in life you never forget your “first” of, and this was definitely one of those...

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Nov 18

November 27, 2018

STD testing

By YCP /

Of all the newsletter emails we've ever sent, the ones with anything to do with "STDs" in the subject line...

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Nov 18

November 26, 2018

Chicago Christmas Swinger Club Promo Video!

By YCP /

This was so much fun to make. Take a look!  

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Nov 18

November 26, 2018

Young Couples Party is on Instagram!

By YCP /

We started on Twitter a long time ago and have been pretty successful! 83,000 followers. I'm really not sure why...

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