The first Sexy, Sunny, Saturday is almost here! It's sold out, so if you didn't buy a ticket you'll have...

10:00 doors open 11:45 pizza arrives 1:00 *guess your partner by his cock/her breast competition 2:00 **yoga 3:00 ***blowjob competition...

Our Friday night parties have historically been on the second Friday of each month. We are moving to TWO friday...

A dirty drive in….. I have an idea for a drive-in movie theatre party. YCP owns a 25-foot wide movie...

Usually in life, the thing that feels the most “comfortable” in the short-term is damaging in the long-term. For example,...

Lifestyle Drama Most couples that attend an event have the time of their lives and cannot wait to return. That...

"Money makes the world go round," is a line from the 1966 Musical Cabaret. It's true. Without money, we cannot...

"I hear you have a pencil-dick!" When I was 19 years old, I heard that dozens of times in my...

We should be sitting down and having lengthy conversations about safe sex, our wishes, desires, and concerns before anyone goes...

Disclaimer: I am fully aware that what I'm about to share with you is absurd and unfair. We cannot always...

Someone on Facebook (a non-ycp group) just told me "I've never heard of a club having an age restriction, age...

No man wants to be insecure...let alone admit that he's vulnerable. We will do almost anything to avoid feeling anxious,...

Before we entered the lifestyle, I thought I understood attraction. In college when my buddies and I would talk about...

I can tell in the first ten minutes after a party goes on sale how well it's going to do....

It's remarkable how often someone tells me that their entire life has improved since they entered the swinger lifestyle. These...

I follow a lot of swinger/lifestyle podcasters, bloggers and event hosts on social media. Some of them have a very...

I read this article today about the University of Missouri's football attendance. Which is only about 47% of what they...

Someone recently asked me if I receive questions about the racial breakdown of YCP attendees. The person was wondering if...

YCP members have an amazing facebook group. It's a secret group which means anything that they post, like or comment...

We have 80,000 followers on Twitter. I'd guess around 78,000 of them are fake or single men from other nations...

Good sex is mostly about match ups, chemistry and modifying what you're doing based upon feedback. There is definitely no "best"...

I receive a message like this nearly every week. (paraphrasing several different, but similar statements) "Hey man, sorry we haven't...

The companies below are affiliates of ours. Meaning, if you purchase from them and go through this link, we receive...

The most popular swinger dating site in the area is Swinglifestyle (SLS).   We could post our event on SLS...

Cliques Typically, people tell me "we love YCP events because they aren't as 'cliquey' as other events we've been to."...

There is a well-known saying among people who discuss and study seduction, "always be escalating." The idea is that you're...

Yes means maybe, and no means no. People have asked me what my expectations are for the parties, and I...

YCP has had 60 men subscribe to Bluechew through our affiliate link. We are shamelessly promoting them. Why? Because it...

We're raising prices on all YCP tickets. There are several reasons for this, but the "final straw" was our new...

Over the years, I've left untold numbers of items at parties across the country. I once took off my hat...

I blog for a few reasons. One is to simply add content to the website. My opinion doesn't matter any...

Themes matter a lot for attendance. Good themes sell out. Bad themes do not. Ok, then it should be easy....

If you have a specific style that you feel great about, then this blog post isn't for you. For example,...

I’ve been bodybuilding my entire adult life. Yet, I’m never going to look like a professional fitness model or bodybuilder....

Let's pretend you're at a lifestyle event, and chatting with an attractive couple. One of them says, "we entered the...

I've heard a lot of couples say, "This is only about us." They mean, "This is about our relationship. Spicing...

  Usually when a question is posed like this, people take the opportunity to "put over" their significant other. No...

Here at YCP, it feels like we do pretty well at promoting our events. We have an amazing facebook group....

We do not allow single men at YCP, so this advice isn't about YCP events. Instead it's about the other...

So I have a tendency to overdo everything. Glow parties are no exception. I've heard people describe their facility as...

On Friday, December 7th we had our first YCP event outside of Chicagoland. We hosted an event in Des Moines,...

The Christmas party on December 14th is selling great! As of this moment there are 73 couples ticketed to this...

The good news. The party in Des Moines on Friday will have close to 40 couples. Virtually none of them...

Hey, don't judge me. HAHA!We both travel for business a lot! So much time apart! I've often had a problem...

A great discussion was raised by our friends over at The Red Couch. They wrote a piece called, "5 Bullshit...

...There are so many things in life you never forget your “first” of, and this was definitely one of those...

Of all the newsletter emails we've ever sent, the ones with anything to do with "STDs" in the subject line...

This was so much fun to make. Take a look!  

We started on Twitter a long time ago and have been pretty successful! 83,000 followers. I'm really not sure why...