I recently read an ordinance designed to shut down a swinger’s club. The preamble of the law stated why swinger clubs should be illegal. Since they can’t legally write “Jesus” in the preamble, the authors made up various things, including std rates increasing….

I’m going to paraphrase Dr. Phil for a moment. God, help me. Dr. Phil once said that we all need pain and anxiety in our lives. If we are numb to hurt, we will end up in a bad marriage, a bad job, or a bad business. He used an analogy of walking to a swimming pool and…

Today I read a blog post from Tara at “Sex Uninterrupted.”  She describes herself as a “leader in the lifestyle,” and I have seen her giving swinging lectures on youtube and being the guest host of Hedonism trips in the past.  Her blog post is entitled, “Why…

In April, the old Facebook group came up with a list of questions that men could ask women before sex. I’ve had the opportunity to ask three women these questions before sex since then, and it has completely changed my approach and improved the quality of the…

Last night we watched the pornographic film, “Barbara Broadcast.” As I watched, it made me reflect upon YCP, the swinging lifestyle, and myself. Barbara Broadcast was the erotic movie of the year in 1977, with one reviewer writing, “Metzger’s work is known for its eye…

“Fluid bonding” is when two or more people agree to ditch the condoms with each other. The “bonding” signifies a pact. Usually, each person has been std tested and then decides to follow rules to ensure everyone’s safety. This should be appealing to me because I hate…

Speaking man-to-man, I’ll be frank. Young Couples Party has been around for over 5-years; there have been hundreds of conversations in person, the Facebook group, and now YCP 2.0. The verdict is in…. Women want men to dress better. Want to know a secret? YCP only…

You see one of your friends at a party. As you’re chatting with them, you notice that their face looks more stern than usual. They seem unusually serious. Perhaps even distant. For the love of God, do not ask them, “What’s wrong?” In my opinion, there isn’t a…

Posting this script for any other event producers who want to do a more thorough job of instructing their attendees about consent. We have all of our attendees watch this instructional video on consent. I wish I could share the video itself, but it has both nudity and…

This morning, I was trying to blog about another subject, but a quick google search turned up this truth-bomb (image) that triggered me into writing on this subject instead. Ridding yourself of endless beauty rituals is one of the worst things about monogamy. Our old…