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FAQ

General FAQ

Everyone is between 21-42 years of age.

On average:
The racial demographics mirror the Chicagoland region as a whole which are 53% white, 22% Latino, 17% African American, 6.4% Asian and 2% other. This is always slightly different based upon the event, but we are proud of the fact that our racial diversity mirrors the region.

Also on average 95% of our attendees are couples and 5% are single females. No single males are allowed.

Some of the attendees consider themselves polyamorous, others as “swingers” and still others are simply “sex-positive” that is they like being around other people who see sex as a positive experience, and not something to feel guilty about.

We know that many young couples avoid clubs due to the perception that there will be a significant age gap between the average attendee and themselves. We have a number of couples in this group that are in their early 20’s. Remember how old someone 45 seemed when you were 21!

Quite honestly, if you’re 50 years old, you’re going to feel like a fish out of water at our parties. Some of our attendees still live at home with their parents.

The pre-pay feature is non-refundable. Menstrual cycles, babysitters, deaths and all kinds of things can keep you from attending.

For our Chicagoland events, if you cannot make a party, your RSVP is automatically transferred to the Chicagoland party that next opens for registration. However, this is for one month only. You would be deleted and need to register again if you miss the second party as well.

For our Des Moines events, if you cannot make a party, you simply lose your ticket/money. We are unsure if there will be future Des Moines events, therefore we cannot have a transfer policy.

We accept these forms of payment.

You’ll receive directions after you’ve registered, but for right now just know that the Chicagoland location is in Oswego, Illinois and the Des Moines location is in Des Moines, Iowa.

More information can be found at this page.

We allow single females. The single female price is 1/2 of the couple price. Just use coupon code SINGLEFEMALE when you register, to make it half-off, and then register just as a couple would.

We do not allow single males.

It’s almost always ladies who ask this question when they honestly have the least to worry about. Let’s address the guys first.

Dress to impress. Do not wear tennis shoes or a t-shirt unless you are participating in the party theme. For example, if the theme is “Christmas: Naughty or Nice” and you want to wear an ugly Christmas sweater….great! If the theme is “spring break” and you want to wear a tank top because it fits the beach theme…..great! However, if you’re not in theme, err on the side of dressing up.
This doesn’t mean you need to wear designer clothes. Just go with “business casual” or better and you’ll be fine. A shirt with a collar, dress shoes, etc. You will never look foolish by “over dressing,” the guy in suit will look great whereas the guy in the oversized t-shirt will be asked to leave.

Ladies: Wear whatever makes you feel the sexiest. At your typical club there will be women baring a lot, like exposed breasts and barely-there panties. There will also be women almost completely covered. It’s entirely up to you.

Smoking is not allowed inside the club. If you smoke, please attend, and you will find a smoking area outside. This applies to e-cigarettes.

No illegal drugs are allowed on premises, including marijuana.

See the video description of speed dating here.

Because our tickets are non-refundable, there is no list. If an event is sold out, the best thing you can do to (1) save money and (2) get into every party is text ycp to 797979 to join the texting list and receive notifications about party registration.

We would only cancel because the club is unavailable, like if a water pipe broke and it flooded, etc. We do not cancel because of winter weather.

If you’re new, you’ll need to bring in a form of identification to show that are between 21-42 years of age. No one will copy your ID or anything like that. Just look at it, and give it back to you.

You’ll need to bring your ticket, either via printed copy or on your phone to be scanned upon entry.

Mixers (soda, etc.), ice and cups are provided but you are responsible for your alcohol. There are refrigerators for anything you’d like to keep cold.

You’ll need to bring any other party supplies that you think you might need, like condoms, toiletries, etc. There are lockers in the Chicagoland location but you’ll need to bring your own lock. There are not lockers at the Des Moines location, so please leave all valuables in your vehicle.

Look at the “Next Events and Future Events” section of menu.

You can stay the night at the Chicagoland events but not the Des Moines events.

In Chicagoland, when you arrive the receptionist will ask you if you’d like to spend the night. If you answer yes, she will help you choose your room. These rooms are available on a first-come-first-served basis. If you want a private room, I advise you to arrive at 7:30 so you can choose from all of them.

The rooms are the sex/play rooms. However, they are relatively clean, safe and quiet after 2 am and clean sheets are available. You can make yourself more comfortable by bringing your own pillows and blankets.

We understand that sometimes people drink more than they planned to. You can always stay at the club, even if that wasn’t your original plan. We may run out of rooms towards the end of the evening, but we will find you a place to sleep. Please, please, please do not drive home while intoxicated.

The party is definitely not an orgy. It is like any other bar or nightclub, only the people are much nicer and if you meet someone or a couple that you click with, there are places that you can have sex.

As with any other sexual situation, feel free to talk with potential partners about safe sex, stds and ask if they have been tested. No one is going to think you’re weird for asking, in fact, they will appreciate your responsibility.

If you’d like to get tested, we recommend using this company and using this link.

The most important rules are to always ask before touching and get an enthusiastic “yes.” There are some additional club rules like “no drinks upstairs” that will be explained on your tour.

We’ve been in the lifestyle for ten years. If you are meeting people via websites you will likely have far more drama than you ever would at a club. We have tried this multiple times. You chat with couples online, then agree to meet in person where you may find they no longer look like their online photos or you don’t have chemistry with them but are now stuck in an awkward dinner arrangement. Or you may find that you have great chemistry and meet up several times, however at some point, a “break-up” will happen…meaning that one couple will want to keep meeting but the other just won’t be “feeling it” anymore.

When you attend a club, you have the opportunity to chat with several couples without the awkwardness. Attendees range from those who just enjoy the atmosphere, to those who like to play with their significant other in a thrilling environment, to full-swap swingers, and everything in between. If you and your significant other can be comfortable being in the presence of naked people without jealously then you will be fine.

This is a question that we hear a lot. You will find that there is every type of body at our events. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Believe us, by 10 pm you will be so comfortable you’ll feel like you’ve been attending clubs for years.

This is so common. Many young, healthy men who have never had an issue suddenly discover they aren’t invincible in a club. Even if you aren’t feeling nervous, your penis might be. If it happens, shrug it off as best you can, it will be better next time, most likely. Again, trust us….it is common for new swingers. Many men in the lifestyle use an ED drug (Viagra, etc.), for this very reason.

General Faq

General FAQ

Everyone is between 21-42 years of age.

On average:
The racial demographics mirror the Chicagoland region as a whole which are 53% white, 22% Latino, 17% African American, 6.4% Asian and 2% other. This is always slightly different based upon the event, but we are proud of the fact that our racial diversity mirrors the region.

Also on average 95% of our attendees are couples and 5% are single females. No single males are allowed.

Some of the attendees consider themselves polyamorous, others as “swingers” and still others are simply “sex-positive” that is they like being around other people who see sex as a positive experience, and not something to feel guilty about.

We know that many young couples avoid clubs due to the perception that there will be a significant age gap between the average attendee and themselves. We have a number of couples in this group that are in their early 20’s. Remember how old someone 45 seemed when you were 21!

Quite honestly, if you’re 50 years old, you’re going to feel like a fish out of water at our parties. Some of our attendees still live at home with their parents.

The pre-pay feature is non-refundable. Menstrual cycles, babysitters, deaths and all kinds of things can keep you from attending.

For our Chicagoland events, if you cannot make a party, your RSVP is automatically transferred to the Chicagoland party that next opens for registration. However, this is for one month only. You would be deleted and need to register again if you miss the second party as well.

For our Des Moines events, if you cannot make a party, you simply lose your ticket/money. We are unsure if there will be future Des Moines events, therefore we cannot have a transfer policy.

We accept these forms of payment.

 

You’ll receive directions after you’ve registered, but for right now just know that the Chicagoland location is in Oswego, Illinois and the Des Moines location is in Des Moines, Iowa.

More information can be found at this page.

We allow single females. The single female price is 1/2 of the couple price. Just use coupon code SINGLEFEMALE when you register, to make it half-off, and then register just as a couple would.

We do not allow single males.

It’s almost always ladies who ask this question when they honestly have the least to worry about. Let’s address the guys first.

Dress to impress. Do not wear tennis shoes or a t-shirt unless you are participating in the party theme. For example, if the theme is “Christmas: Naughty or Nice” and you want to wear an ugly Christmas sweater….great! If the theme is “spring break” and you want to wear a tank top because it fits the beach theme…..great! However, if you’re not in theme, err on the side of dressing up.
This doesn’t mean you need to wear designer clothes. Just go with “business casual” or better and you’ll be fine. A shirt with a collar, dress shoes, etc. You will never look foolish by “over dressing,” the guy in suit will look great whereas the guy in the oversized t-shirt will be asked to leave.

Ladies: Wear whatever makes you feel the sexiest. At your typical club there will be women baring a lot, like exposed breasts and barely-there panties. There will also be women almost completely covered. It’s entirely up to you.

Smoking is not allowed inside the club. If you smoke, please attend, and you will find a smoking area outside. This applies to e-cigarettes.

No illegal drugs are allowed on premises, including marijuana.

See the video description of speed dating here.

Because our tickets are non-refundable, there is no list. If an event is sold out, the best thing you can do to (1) save money and (2) get into every party is text ycp to 797979 to join the texting list and receive notifications about party registration.

We would only cancel because the club is unavailable, like if a water pipe broke and it flooded, etc. We do not cancel because of winter weather.

If you’re new, you’ll need to bring in a form of identification to show that are between 21-42 years of age. No one will copy your ID or anything like that. Just look at it, and give it back to you.

You’ll need to bring your ticket, either via printed copy or on your phone to be scanned upon entry.

Mixers (soda, etc.), ice and cups are provided but you are responsible for your alcohol. There are refrigerators for anything you’d like to keep cold.

You’ll need to bring any other party supplies that you think you might need, like condoms, toiletries, etc. There are lockers in the Chicagoland location but you’ll need to bring your own lock. There are not lockers at the Des Moines location, so please leave all valuables in your vehicle.

Look at the “Next Events and Future Events” section of menu.

You can stay the night at the Chicagoland events but not the Des Moines events.

In Chicagoland, when you arrive the receptionist will ask you if you’d like to spend the night. If you answer yes, she will help you choose your room. These rooms are available on a first-come-first-served basis. If you want a private room, I advise you to arrive at 7:30 so you can choose from all of them.

The rooms are the sex/play rooms. However, they are relatively clean, safe and quiet after 2 am and clean sheets are available. You can make yourself more comfortable by bringing your own pillows and blankets.

We understand that sometimes people drink more than they planned to. You can always stay at the club, even if that wasn’t your original plan. We may run out of rooms towards the end of the evening, but we will find you a place to sleep. Please, please, please do not drive home while intoxicated.

The party is definitely not an orgy. It is like any other bar or nightclub, only the people are much nicer and if you meet someone or a couple that you click with, there are places that you can have sex.

As with any other sexual situation, feel free to talk with potential partners about safe sex, stds and ask if they have been tested. No one is going to think you’re weird for asking, in fact, they will appreciate your responsibility.

If you’d like to get tested, we recommend using this company and using this link.

The most important rules are to always ask before touching and get an enthusiastic “yes.” There are some additional club rules like “no drinks upstairs” that will be explained on your tour.

We’ve been in the lifestyle for ten years. If you are meeting people via websites you will likely have far more drama than you ever would at a club. We have tried this multiple times. You chat with couples online, then agree to meet in person where you may find they no longer look like their online photos or you don’t have chemistry with them but are now stuck in an awkward dinner arrangement. Or you may find that you have great chemistry and meet up several times, however at some point, a “break-up” will happen…meaning that one couple will want to keep meeting but the other just won’t be “feeling it” anymore.

When you attend a club, you have the opportunity to chat with several couples without the awkwardness. Attendees range from those who just enjoy the atmosphere, to those who like to play with their significant other in a thrilling environment, to full-swap swingers, and everything in between. If you and your significant other can be comfortable being in the presence of naked people without jealously then you will be fine.

This is a question that we hear a lot. You will find that there is every type of body at our events. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Believe us, by 10 pm you will be so comfortable you’ll feel like you’ve been attending clubs for years.

This is so common. Many young, healthy men who have never had an issue suddenly discover they aren’t invincible in a club. Even if you aren’t feeling nervous, your penis might be. If it happens, shrug it off as best you can, it will be better next time, most likely. Again, trust us….it is common for new swingers. Many men in the lifestyle use an ED drug (Viagra, etc.), for this very reason.