Usually when a question is posed like this, people take the opportunity to “put over” their significant other. No need to brag about how “perfect” your partner is, this is a question discussing men in general.

Some of you have only been with a couple men, some of you have been with a couple of hundred men. Just answer as best you can.

Let me preface this by saying that I’ve noticed that when i’m more vocal, my wife is much more comfortable during sex. I’ve also noticed that there seems to be a lot of pressure on women to moan like porn stars, but most men hardly make a sound. Walk through a swinger club playroom and you’ll hear women putting on quite a performance, while the only men you’ll hear are guys looking for their socks after sex. LOL

I once had a woman ask me if I had orgasmed after I had, which made me realize I really need to make a point to be more vocal during swinging sex. I mean she was an inch from my face and had no idea. That was a real eye-opener!

Ladies…. this is your chance to tell the men of this world the truth. Do men need to relax a bit and be more expressive (voice, moan, etc.) during sex?