Electric Playfest Information

Consent

New couples will watch a video on consent before their tour.

Always ask before touching or hugging—yes, even with familiar faces. Always ask before escalating any interaction. When in doubt, ask clearly. Verbal communication is the best way to ensure mutual understanding. While reading body language is important, it can be tricky or misleading, so don’t rely on it alone. If you don’t get an enthusiastic, verbal YES, do not proceed.

If at any point you feel uncomfortable or unsure, please reach out to a host or staff member immediately. We’re here to support you and help maintain a safe, respectful environment for everyone.

Discretion

Loose lips sink ships. Do not tell anyone about this event or location. That's true of all YCP events, and it's the majority of the NDA you signed. This is for everyone's safety and discretion.

In our experience as host, people do not "break" rules, they have simply forgotten the rules. Please take a moment to refresh yourself on the NDA that you signed. You can find it here. https://youngcouplesparty.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/Messages-Image4034165641.png

Contacting Us

You can call or text 630-949-4390.

We will respond to everything up until about 8:45 pm the night of the party, after that you're on your own. 

We love questions! You can text and we will answer you asap. 

Missing the Event/Party Transfer

There are no transfers or refunds.  You do not need to contact YCP if you are missing the party. 

Party Timing

We write this with love, but it is strong because it's that important.

Electric Playfest doors open at 6:30 pm. You can arrive as early as 6:00 and as late as 10:30.

While the last admittance is 10:30, you should aim to get there at 8.  

YCP is not your typical party; it starts fast. By 8:30, the event will be full.

Outside music will end at 11pm.  Party will continue indoors.  

Do not arrive after 10:30

Again, almost everyone is there by 9:00PM. However, 10:29PM is the last time you can get into the door.

You will not be allowed in after 10:30. There are no exceptions.

Do not call or text to ask for an exception. If you knock or ring the doorbell to be asked in after 10:30, we will ban you from all future YCP events. 

To open the door to see who is knocking or ringing the bell puts our guests at risk. 

Again, virtually everyone is there by 8:30PM. Aim for 8PM, not 10:30PM. 

Address

The address is: 2013 Kennedy Rd, Bristol, IL.

Consider leaving a little early to make sure you get there by 8. Are you getting a Lyft/Uber?  If the driver asks, tell them it's a private party.

Party Tickets 

Please provide your usernames and the email address you registered with when you arrive. Staff will ensure you are ticketed. 

Photos/Phones

Photos/Phones are only allowed in designated areas on first level.  Look for a photo backdrop.  Photo backdrop may not be available once music starts.  Ensure no one is in the background of any photos.  Photos also require full consent.

Alcohol

The party is BYOB.  We provide soda mixers.  Do not bring enough alcohol that you could become drunk. Bring your own cup.  There are limited plastic cups.

Measure how much alcohol you'd like to consume and only bring that much. It's easy to try to drink away the nerves, but no one wants to get sick and embarrassed at the party. The host couple does this, and they've been attending lifestyle parties for ten years. It also prevents hangovers! 🙂

Drugs

No illegal drugs at all, ever. This is not that kind of a party, trust me.  

Parking - VERY IMPORTANT

Please carpool if able!  Listen to the parking attendant.  Park where they say.  They will be advising you to park very close to a car already parked.  You may be double parked. See the image. 

The parking lot is completely full by the time the doors lock. 

Building Entry Point

The entry door is the door all the way to the right.   

You'll Choose a Color at the Door

You'll be asked to select a color bracelet at the registration desk. These colors indicate your lifestyle preferences.

Red = full swap (switching partners for penetrative sex)

Blue/Purple = soft swap (switching partners - oral)

Yellow = other (just checking it out, voyeur, looking for a single woman, etc.)

Everything is situational. You may choose red but later decide you're only up for soft (blue). Or not up for swapping at all. In no way should this be a substitute for excellent communication. Of course, you may choose not to participate at all. But we hope you'll try it, as we've found it helps people make new friends. Even non-swingers seem to get more involved in conversations when they don't fear "leading people on." 

Spending the Night - It's Free!

This attachment describes the process.There are clean blankets, pillowcases, and sheets. It's not too late for you to cancel your hotel reservation, save yourself DOUBLE what you paid for this party, and stay at the club. 

Hotels

Plenty of great hotels in the area. Most people choose the Hampton Inn. 

Dress Code

It’s almost always ladies who ask this question when they honestly have the least to worry about. Let’s address the guys first.

Men - Dress to impress. Do not wear tennis shoes or a t-shirt unless you are participating in the party theme. For example, if the theme is “Christmas: Naughty or Nice” and you want to wear an ugly Christmas sweater….great! If the theme is “spring break” and you want to wear a tank top because it fits the beach theme…..great! However, if you’re not in theme, err on the side of dressing up.
This doesn’t mean you need to wear designer clothes. Just go with “business casual” or better and you’ll be fine. A shirt with a collar, dress shoes, etc. You will never look foolish by “over dressing,” the guy in suit will look great whereas the guy in the oversized t-shirt will be asked to leave.  Please no t-shirts, tennis shoes/sneakers, or baseball caps, unless it's a part of the theme. If you have any questions about the dress code, please text staff at 630-949-4390.

Ladies: Wear whatever makes you feel the sexiest. At your typical club there will be women baring a lot, like exposed breasts and barely-there panties. There will also be women almost completely covered. It’s entirely up to you.

Food

We will have pizza rolls, chicken and cheese mini tacos and black bean and cheese taquitos at the event. 

Tour

If you're new to the clubhouse, you'll be given a tour when you arrive.  Please tell the host if you have never attended a YCP party at the clubhouse.

Lockers

There are lockers, but you'll need to bring your lock. 

Please leave anything unnecessary in your locked vehicle. Theft is not a problem at YCP, but people forgetting things at the venue is a significant problem. We rent the property two days per month. We cannot go back and retrieve your items, and you cannot either. If you leave something there, you'll have to come to the next event and see if it's in the lost and found. Therefore, only bring what you need or don't mind losing. 

Taking Care of the Property

Your hosts are financially responsible for damage to the property and for cleaning the club the next day. Throw your trash away, do not purposely destroy anything, etc. 🙂.

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